Being a victim or a victor depends on your mindset.

This website is about helping you change the way you think. I hate generic self-help, so the content I offer is a combination of psychology, experience and personal stories. With topics ranging from mindset formation and social interaction, to personal growth and character analysis, you will easily find something to relate to.

 
“Whether you think you can, or you think you can’t – you’re right.”
 
- Henry Ford
 
   

I used to have low self-esteem,  felt weak and inferior. I’d let others abuse and take advantage of me, didn’t  speak up or stood my ground. As a result, I was very unhappy.

Around the time I turned 18, I got fed up with the direction my life was heading in, and decided it was time for change. Over the course of several years I tried endless methods, tips and tricks to improve my life. What I found is that none of the methods work, there are no quick or universal solutions, and anybody who is a self-proclaimed guru is a scam.

Back to square one, I realized that the only way to change the way I act and react is to change the way I think. Instead of focusing on fixing individual symptoms, I decided to take care of the disease causing them.